Lily Milo. It isn t easy for Lily Milo to be vulnerable ( Lily Milo being a pseudonym that she s still uneasy about using). Plus, well, her blatant admission of just how difficult it is for the singer-songwriter to be publicly vulnerable may as well be the most revealing evidence that she s actually really very good at it. Oh my god, it s like vulnerability with more than, like, a couple people is extremely difficult, she says. And at the time when I finally decided to write the songs, it was so amazing because when I started being vulnerable, nobody was like, Hey, don t be vulnerable. Everyone was like, This is great, keep being vulnerable. There was all this fear and everybody was so supportive. It s just helpful sometimes to know people are going through a similar thing and that people can come out of it together.