to have kids, they want to get married and not having success? don t write that on the profile. i m getting up there. i want to have kids. i m arthritic and infertile please pick me. you want the first few months to be pure bliss. you want to believe the other person is perfect. part of the excitement is discovering the crazy right? that s true. is she going to stab me in my sleep or not? of course she is if she is dating me. is that a goiter or did she have inplants? i wonder if divorce rate would go down. know the flaws from the beginning. divorce rate can t goes down when the marriage rate plummets because people are terrified. if you set the bar really low, if she is not that ugly or she is working part-time like 10 hours a week, if you set the barlow enough there is only upside. my dating picture would be me drinking a beer, no shirt on in my messy apartment.