Present. one that she soon figures out she could have well done without. the thing comes home and the thing has its own room and thing gets gifts from grandparents and before long it just heightens the sibling rivalry. for the record the original title on the birth order book when it was bound with rubber bands and cardboard was able had it coming. the publisher said kevin, you can t have a title like able had it coming. pretty clever. i have a bunch of kids and closely spaced together more than the government would like. it seems like one of the messages it s not about you. you learn young to share resources and share resources from your parents and share affection. it s like living in a dorm. that s good, no? not necessarily a 5 year gap, for example, you start another family. you almost create what i call a function until first functional first born. i think what really helps is when that second born is
Sorry, nicole. first born. is this true though? what else does our birth order say about us? here to weigh in is dr. kevin lehman. he s the order of the birth order book. hey, doc. good morning. good morning. let s talk about first born children at trib puts and see if this holds up for someone like myself and other world leaders. what do we have inherent in us? well, first borns are the lab rat of the family to begin with. parents practice on them. that s right. kids look up. their models are adults so school is the first proving ground in life. they tend to be achievers. they re early readers. one of the reasons why first borns end up smarter on such studies that we just saw again is that the parents have time to read to the child,nd mo and mor attention goes to the first borns. they re presidents, ceos,
Here to explain this is dr. kevin layman. good morning, ainsley, i m doing good, thanks. ainsley: thank you. you re the author of the birth order book, we re showing you the book right now. it s fascinating because it s always interesting to learn the birth order and find out if the kids really follow suit as far as the personalities are concerned. will you break down those brothers for me and tell me he if they follow suit? yeah, in any family the first two brothers or first two sisters, different. and fascinating how they come out of the same den and so different. john is typical, poised, an achiever, sort after cool guy, probably keeps his emotions close to his chest. where little brother jim, only 15 months apart so these kids competed from toddlerhood on up. but jim is most likely to what, throw a temper tantrum on the side line during the game. one is a risk taker, that
President is taking the opportunity to talk about issues beyond nuclear security at the korean peninsula and discussing iran s nuclear ambitions and upheaval in syria. and has a presidential dinner going on right now and then the summit itself begins tomorrow, dave? wendell goler live in seoul. obviously, the leadership situation there of particular interest for the president, ali. alisyn: probably hopeful rick santorum snagged a victory in louisiana last night. could his big win have anything to do with his birth order? here to break is down for us. dr. kevin lehman, and the author of the birth order book. always great to be here. alisyn: we love talking about birth order here, it s super fun to analyze that. let s look at all of the presidential candidates and where they fall in their families. 65% of u.s. presidents were
There s a simple plan and this book is not have a new husband by friday and both of those books share this, you know, it doesn t have to take forever to affect behavioral change in your life. on tuesday, in your five day, look at the family zoo you grew up in. that tells you a lot about where you are today, doesn t it? it really does. i m the guy that did the birth order book years ago and, you know, in that birth order, your private logic, what you really think about yourself is uncovered. i grew up in a family of three with a sister who was perfect, a brother who was a quarterback in the football team. i graduated i graduated fourth from the bottom of my class in high school. i was in a reading group of a girl who ate paste. i got thrown out of cub scouts in college. and, you know, i m a former dean of students here at the university of arizona. so i ve lived this life. this book is autobiographical in nature. on wednesday, all the lies we tell ourselves.