karate together. they were in the same karate class. >> tom and gill also hit it off , and became close. talking sports, and watching giants games. and like tom, he was a hands on dad. he went to all his sons karate classes, where he would see linda. >> we would sit next to each other, and just talk. it was like three times a week , for an hour. >> what was it about gilberto that you liked? >> very friendly, very personable. >> one year went by before linda says she realized something was happening between them. >> every time he would leave he would give me a kiss goodbye. >> on the lips? >> for him to give me a hug and a kiss on the cheek, see you next week. it really wasn't that kind of a big deal to me. it was kind of like his culture. and as time started going by when i was realizing the kiss was no longer on the cheek. so i would go back to my car