do you think she was having an affair? >> i can almost guarantee it. in fact, that's what i believed happened on december 11th. she went to go meet someone. >> despite the blood found in her abandoned van, remy says he clung to hope that jen was still alive. he asked for help from a missing persons organization. they blanketed the area with fliers. remy says he couldn't take the not knowing anymore. you tombly enlisted a psychic to help you. >> what harm could it do? >> the psychic believed jen was still alive, so remy says he wanted to keep the search going. >> he was alone with three kids. i thought he was grasping at anything he could get to feel like maybe his wife was out there still. >> the new year didn't bring any new leads. the winter snow was piling up and underneath it all another secret, this one so explosive it could not stay hidden for long.