needed to start with the story of her life. >> pamela had a spirit that was infectious she had a personality that sucked you in. >> we were neighbors and we did become best friends. every day we talked. >> that was long before jim came into the picture of course. >> good morning, baby desiree. first christmas. >> pam was a single mom. she and carol baby sat for each others kids, walked their babies together. went shopping. shared recipes and hung out during the holidays. >> pamela is very much family to me. >> pam was the most caring, loving, giving person you would ever meet. life was about other people. >> tina holland is another