understand this history is because we carry it within us. these things need to be unpacked and looked at, and talked about, and we need to decide what we think about them now. it is challenging, but it's where the juice is. [laughs] >> we call it the war between the states here. we don't call it the civil war. >> why is it important to call it the war between the states? >> because that's what it was, it wasn't a civil war. >> the war of northern aggression, the north came down here and invaded us. we didn't go up there. >> my grandmother was saying they had to had the food in the chimney because of soldiers who came in would take everything they had. they take all their livestock, any food that was in the house, and it was terrible. the war took place in our backyard, for the people up