has to occur in a series of small steps, small goals. >> ari encourages me to have patience with jeff, but this is a fight we cannot afford to lose because he has seen the worst that hate has to offer. >> i was a little kid during the second world war in poland. so i was put into a ghetto. people were sent to concentration camps. my family was one of the 800 families that remained in the ghetto. one night the rumor spread that those 800 families are going to be also killed. my father and my uncle found a hiding place in a room without windows, the entry to which was through a cupboard, and we stayed there for two weeks. it was a matter of luck that i survived. >> if ari, who has lost so much