whether you're in the mood or not. i couldn't think of a better way of describing it. inappropriate remark i was about to make but i'm not going to do it because it's live. sheryl's eight success tips women need to read. very interesting. one, don't let fear hold you back. don't underestimate yourself. realize choosing a life partner is a career decision. don't sacrifice being successful for being liked. you don't have to be 100% to take on a promotion. don't scale back ambition because you want to be a mom. don't drive yourself crazy with perfection guilt. if you rise to the top, you will help other women. let me turn to you, kathy. one of the things she said is that a husband who does more work around the house will get more sex. that can't be true. >> you know, i appreciate what sheryl had to say, the importance of finding the right man, and i'm so grateful that i did. however, when it comes to child care responsibilities, household chores, those decisions need to