>> do you think he saw something that he hadn't seen before? >> we certainly saw something we hadn't seen before. we saw kate in plunging necklines and mini dresses, kate showing confidence and radiating. >> i remember having lunch with her when they split up. it was kind of evident she was being very forthright, i'm getting on with my life, fine, cool. it hasn't worked out, that's behind me, let's move on. she was very calm and level headed and strong about it and i think he thought oh, my god. >> he became unglued. he started drinking too much. he went out with his buddies to clubs. he was obviously adrift emotionally. it didn't help him to have him see pictures of kate having the time of her life. >> i think at the time i wasn't very happy about it but it made me a stronger person. you find out things about yourself that maybe you hadn't