reported in the united states. before we talk about where we are now, we wanted to look back at where we have been with a little help from sir elton john. ♪ ♪ i can't lie no more of your darkness ♪ ♪ all of my pictures seem to fade to black and white ♪ >> you just want to be like everybody else. >> i will have to retire from the lakers. ♪ i'm growing tired ♪ and time stands still before me ♪ ♪ frozen here >> now, harder than ever, we must act up! >> fight back! fight aids! ♪ don't let the sun go down on me ♪ ♪ although i search myself it's always someone else i see ♪ ♪ i am just now a fragment of your life ♪ ♪ do you want to be free >> today we are releasing our national hiv/aids strategy. ♪ i'm losing everything it's like the sun going down on me ♪ >> 30 years of hiv/aids in this country. easy to forget how dire the outlook once was for those with aids. hiv is a much different diagnosis. like many gay men of his generation, sir elton john watched a lot of his friends die in the early years of the epidemic. he created the elton john aids foundation one of the leading advocacy and support organizations. sir elton john joins me now. thank you for being with us. i heard you say that you feel you didn't do enough early on when aids first started to -- to make headlines in the united states back in the early '80s. >> i will be more specific. i did nothing. absolutely nothing. when aids first started in the early 80s. i lost a lot of friends to aids. it was the start of a big problem for me, drugs, alcohol. i was frightened. i was scared. i turned my back. i should have been out there with larry cramer. i am on record as saying this, i did nothing. i am so ashamed of the inability that i had to actually put my foot into the water, dip my foot into the water. >> were you afraid you might get sick? >> possibly. i mean when you are on drugs, on alcohol, you take chances and risks you normally wouldn't do if you were not. i was fortunate not to contract hiv when i did get soesh, i realized what an absolute self-obsessed, selfish person i was. and i had to -- to make amends to my fellow gay people that i lost. and other people that were becoming increasingly infected. not just gay people. let's face it was known at the gay disease when the first started out. i lost so many friends. on a plaque on my wall at my house. i have a chapel in my house, names, plaques, must be 80 names i lost in ten years. >> you lost 80 friends? >> yeah. i think because of who i was, i had the ability to say something. i didn't. i am ashamed of that. that's why i am trying to make amends now by trying to do as much as possible. i think i definitely should have been out there with the people, yeah, made a record, "that's what friends are for" that raised a lot of money, yes i did the elizabeth taylor thing. i wasn't elizabeth taylor, i didn't speak out. for elizabeth taylor, at the time, being a woman to speak out against aids is something special. i should have been there, i wasn't. i regret it. >> ryan white had a huge impact on how many americans saw people living with aids. he also had a big impact on you. you became very close to him. you became close to his mother. what was it about him that kind of made you focus your attention? >> well it took a child, i.e. ryan white to change the face and the attention of the american government at that time that had done nothing for aids, the bush administration, senior bush administration, and reagan administration before it, completely ignored aids. when this child got aids, suddenly everyone was interested. elizabeth glaser had lunch with her, formed pediatric aids foundation. want to washington and had to beg for help. finally they got help. this was for children. there weren't even, enthusiastic about helping children with aids. so when ryan white emerged and became a kind of hero, folk hero forever and ever, and i became friends with him because i was so astonished and terrified of the way he was being treated and his family were being treated that i did get off my fat backside and became, befriended the family, befriended ryan and became friend with him for quite some time until, unfortunate low he died. i was there for the last week of his life in indianapolis with howie long and judith light. and the wonderful ryan white family. who had ability after all they went through, the christian ability to forgive the people who had been so horrendously awful to them. >> i want to play for our virz, a little bit for those who didn't remember ryan or maybe for the generation growing up not knowing who he was. he and a mom, they were fighting for his right to attend school. he really became an activist in his own right. let's take a look. >> i am just one of the kids. and because of the kids at hamilton high school, listened to the fact. educated themselves and believed in me. >> i think it really helped children with aids. >> how do you feel in your heart? >> well, i think it is great. i think it is super that all of this is going on. if you dwell on the fact that you are going to die then you are not, you probably will die. because you know they say a positive attitude can help you with anything. >> and he did pass away, i think in 1990. you were actually there that final, those final weeks right? >> yeah, i was. i actually did do something good for the last week of his life. by being in the hospital answering the phones, becoming judy's secretary basically. i am still close to judy white, andrea his sister, and this year was the 20th anniversary of his death. we did something to commemorate that in indianapolis. anderson, it took this child to die with dignity. he never complained. he never blamed anyone. let's face it. he got this disease from a blood transfusion, a hemophiliac, he never complained, never blamed anyone, he never hated anyone. it took this child to galvanize people in this country to do something about aids for everyone. once a child got it. oh, well, it must be important. i don't say that derogatory, the gay people who had been before were completely forgot any bout. it took ryan white to come through with his beautiful, christian attitude of forgiveness and courage and dignity to actually further this cause and if it hadn't have been for him god knows where we would have been right now. >> more with sir elton john. and ahead, monique, and aids touched down in her family's life. and later, mondo gerra, fashion designer revealed he was hiv positive on "project run way" last fall. and how the new developments treating hiv are helping people, national campaign, greater than aids, are asking americans to share their deciding moments. personal experiences that changed how they think about aids. we asked sharon stone and cream jab to share them with us. here is jeanie white ginder, ryan's mom. >> ryan, how do you do it, how are you not upset at everybody because of how they're treating you. he would say mom they're just trying to protect their own kids like you are trying to protect me. he used to always tell me to keep my chin up. he said, mom, just keep your chin up. i find myself lowering my head. he would say, mom, you have nothing to be ashamed of. keep that chin up. so i would look to tell everybody living with aids now, to keep their chin up. ugh, my sinuses... the congestion... it's your fault. naturally, blame the mucus. well, i can't breathe. did you try blowing your nose? 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>> yes, a family member, a friend who passed away from the disease. and the stigma is still there. we still do look at that disease as a plague. we still do want to push people away and push people back and isolate people. with the disease. so, me seeing my family member. me seeing my friend pass from the disease, they died in shame. and guilt and embarrassment. that is not something that i would wish for for anyone. >> elton, when it comes to fighting hiv you believe that racism and homophobia still play a big part in this? >> oh, absolutely. our foundation really tries to champion the people that are marginalized, i.e., homosexuals, intravenous drug users, incarcerated people and african-american people. we still find incredible prejudice against aids and in all walks of life against these people. not just with aids. these are marginalized people, thought of some times as second-class s citizens. which in this day and age is unforgivable, unforgivable. >> i saw a thing in the paper, there is a north carolina state representative, larry branham said his state should eliminate funding to treat adults with hiv, because it is caused by people living with perverted lifestyles. it is amazing that we still see that among people who are in state houses in government. >> it's -- it's mind-boggling to think these people are in a position of power. their sheer hatred. anderson it is not just within the aids, hiv scenario. it is an epidemic sweeping through this country, the rhetoric that comes from people's mouths whether it is religious intolerance, racial intolerance, homophobia, i have been coming here for 40 years, i love this country deeply. but i am so shocked at the state of which we have become, which this country has become at the moment. >> monique having the experience of having family members who've have contracted aids and then passed away, does it change the way, is that what got you motivated? is that what changed the way you saw this? >> well, actually what changed it for me. i did a benefit show in the early '90s in chicago for hiv/aids. when you look out in audience you said, wow, their faces look like my face. and i could be one of those people sitting in that position. and if i were, what would i want people to do? would i want someone to be supportive? would i want someone to think she is still a human being let's treat her as such? the very first show i did in chicago really made me say we got to do something. we got to stop being so insensitive. and we have got to stop segregating this disease saying it is this group, that group. it is such a human disease. it is happening not just in america, it is happening all over the world. >> in the united states, elton it is remarkable when you look at cdc reports, 34% of new infections are people under age 30 years old. really a generation which has grown up hearing about hiv, knowing, you know, you assume something of how it is transmitted how they can prevent it and yet there is this whole generation out there which is -- doesn't seem to have been -- be practicing the lessons that have been learned in the 80s and 90s? >> that is absolutely correct. but also, on an educational level. you find that a lot of the schools still teach abstinence pro gras which is absolutely no good whatsoever to young children. and to young teenagers growing up. we find this is a cyclical occurrence. every ten years or so, we find we have to re-educate the young. it's because i think of the progress that has been made by the anti-retroviral drugs. people think if i get this disease, i will live, they have no idea of the toxic consequences of the drugs, how their body will handle them, each individual is different. they're like a human time bomb. a lot of people don't know they have the disease they're infecting other people. it is very alarming especially when you think of, we have come a long way. >> monique, i saw a study recently said 27% of people think that hiv can be spread by sharing a glass of drinking water with someone. 14% think by being in the same swimming pool with somebody. you know you think we have come a long way. when you hear a statistic, the disease cannot be transmitted like that. and it's, kind of sad people think still, that adds to that stigma you were talking about. >> it goes back to what elton was saying in reference to the education. when i was in high school, when i was in middle school, i had a sex education class. and they told us about the different diseases and what could happen how you protect yourself. well the moment we removed it, well, now the kids really don't know. there are so many people that it is just not informed about this disease so that's why you have the 27% feeling like, we can't get in the same swimming pool, oh, watch out, if they sneeze, you can't sit next to them. if we put it back into the educational system and start with the kids and begin to educate that younger generation i really think we will see some improvements. because as when i was in school, and i saw what herpes was, and gonorrhea, and all the diseases it made me say let me be careful. you were frightened almost when you saw those things. now to take it out and say we are going to teach abstinence. we know that really doesn't work. because our kids are having sex. >> we will have more with sir elton john, monique in a moment. still to come how powerful new medications have transformed the fight against hiv/aids, by no means a death sentence, for many it's become a chronic condition. we'll talk to people living with hiv, the impact on the african-american community. statistics are alarming, nearly half of all infections every year are among african-americans. we'll talk with elton, monique, phil wilson. we would look to hear your stories how aids/hiv have touched your lives. to share your videos go to cnn.com. >> i was very fortunate to be a friend of arthur ashe. and in knowing him, it was one thing that really impressed me about him, so much, after he caught the aids virus. he never, ever complained about his bad fortune. he never, ever said why me? he was very brave about it and did all he could do to educate people as to what was going on and encourage them to do what they could do to fight his problem. 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>> absolutely. the aids epidemic in black community continues to be out of control. our house is on fire. we need to figure out how to put that fire out. >> do people talk about it as much as they should in the african-american community? >> people are beginning to talk more about it. not as much as we should. black community is slow to respond to the aid epidemic. even now, people are quick to want to make it someone else's problem, happening some where else. happening in africa, happening in asia. we have an aids epidemic in south central los angeles, washington, d.c., new york, chicago, and black communities all over the country. >> why is it so high in black communities, why so many new infections? >> there are a number of reasons. one we don't have infrastructure and capacity necessary to fight the disease. like i said earlier the community was slow to respond to the disease. there continues to be stigma, denial. people aren't willing to talk about it. people don't have access to appropriate primary medical care. so people get diagnosed late in their disease state. you know we still get people who are walking into hospital rooms finding out they're hiv positive when they have late stage aids. >> elton, one of the things your foundation does look at though is the impact of hiv/aids among underserved communities. >> absolutely. you have to. because these people will get neglected otherwise. and we are a great funder of the black aids institute, kaeiser foundation, great new campaign, and very poor areas in the south and in the caribbean in latin america. but in america, especially, we, we are championing, and trying to look after the african-american society. because i think as, as phill says they came to the party late. a lot of these people because of the stigma, like we found in africa, people don't want to talk about it because of the shame involved. it's -- you know, and monique was absolutely right. instead of picking on various people, various sections of the public, like gay people, drug users, et cetera, et cetera. african-americans it is a human disease. this is a disease that knows no boundaries. did you know for example it is the leading killer eof women ag 24 to 54, aids. it's not breast cancer it's aids. >> to understand, if i can. i want to thank the elton john foundation. they have been a critical supporter at the black aids institute. one of the reasons it is important to look at the aids epidemic in black communities today. that's where the epidemic is primarily today. if we are going to be successful we have to follow the data. we have to really invest in where those folks who are most impacted. >> do we know how much, among, is it spread primarily among gay men in the african-american community? >> i think the ways it is primarily spread in black communities, certainly gay, bisexual men, other men who have sex with men, a large percentage of heterosexual transmission, and then there is the use of i.v. drug use. >> large heterosexual transmission among african-americans? >> yes. >> people find out they're hiv positive late. so two things happen. if you find out you are hiv positive late then there is more time when you are unknowingly transmitting the virus. >> 1/5 of hiv positive people in the united states do not know they're hiv positive. when you hear that, that means folks who are unwittingly, ac, , hurting themselves, they're not getting treatment they probably need, potentially they're hurting other people as well. >> you know what, anderson, too, i think it its the fear of knowing. it's the fear of finding out. you know your body is doing something different. you know you're feeling different. you know that these different things are happening. because there is such a stigma attached to it especially in our community, you, you have a fear of knowing because then once you know, then what do you do? >> you have just got -- phill was telling me you got a letter from somebody. >> i got a letter just yesterday. if i can read it. it makes monique's point. the letter goes, mr. wilson, i have been recently diagnosed with hiv positive. an african-american, single. educated christian man with a 20-year-old son. needless to say i am experiencing wide range of emotion, fear, regret, anger, shame, sadness and embarrassment. this is truly the hardest sea son of my life i ever experienced. as i write this e-mail, i am afraid and ashamed. >> we get letters like that every single day. we get lowers from young people who, you know, i didn't know how to protect themselves or didn't know their lives were worth protecting. from mother as frayed and ashamed. they have a child living with aids. >> to your point, monique, it is scary but better to know. >> it is belter to know. because then you can take action. if you don't know, you cannot take action. and if you do have it you are spreading the disease. you are spread that disease because you are too afraid to say let me go find out. and you can almost understand why someone would say, i'm afraid. because of the judgment. because of the isolation. because of people saying, oh, you must be dirty. oh, you must have been, you know, sexually active with all these people. you must have been a drug user. it is so many things that come along with it. i think the moment that we treat this disease like any other disease we could remove the judgment. and that way when that person has to go into the clinic or have to go find out they're not walking in with their head down. >> yeah, got to take a quick break. >> go ahead, elton. >> anderson, a program about 30 years of aids. when aids started it was all about stigma. here we are, 30 years on talking about stigma and shame associated with aids and judgment handed down to certain sections of society. in a way, it's incredible that in a civilized country, and a very rich country, and a very educated country like america, that we are talking about this. >> we have to take a quick break. more, sir elton john, phill, monique, thank you for being with us. i love how you call elton john baby. i want you to call me baby. >> i will call you baby, anderson, soon as you sit on the couch at the monique show. >> any time. >> thank you, guys. >> up next, gay americans, hiv 30 years later, a fashion designer joins us. this past fall on project run way, revealed he is hiv positive and has been for years. we'll talk to him about his status and why he went without treatment for so long. and talk to phill living with hiv since the early 80s. incredible. another deciding moment. you can share yours at greaterthanaids.com. this one from l.a. laker pao. [ inaudible ] for. >> finding out one of my idols was affected by aids, hiv at the time. it was very shocking. it made me want to find out more about the illness. and that's why nowadays i do so much work on behahiv/aids. 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>> i really waited until four days before the episode aired. it was just me and my dad and my mom and my partner at the dinner table. and you know there is just no easy way about it. they just were really proud of me for speaking up and speaking out. and they were, you know they hoped that i could inspire somebody else to come out and talk about it and, you know. >> you would think in the gay community in a place like new york or denver where you live there wouldn't be a stigma among gay people. but do you find there is? >> you know, i wasn't in a relationship for seven years because i was so ashamed of being hiv positive. you know, being hiv positive? >> ashamed? why? what made you feel ashamed? >> you know even in the gay community i have been called dirty and unclean because i have hiv i don't think i am a dirty person. i don't think i'm unclean, you know? and it just made me feel, i didn't feel accepted to tell you the truth. >> phill, you have been diagnosed in the early 1980s. >> 1981. >> you have also been involved for a long time with some one who was hiv negative as you are as well or were. do you find still stigma in the gay community? >> absolutely. you know, anderson, people all the time talk about, you know, i'm clean. you be too. dd free, drug and disease free, you be too. the messages are blatant, that there is a risk involved, if you disclose your hiv status. and there is something that is fundamentally shameful that 30 years into this epidemic that at a time when a person needs now his family, his community, his friends, the most, that we are afraid to share important information that would help bring us together. >> it seehypocritical. if you are having sex with people, you are exposing yourself, or, there is some level of risk there, why wouldn't you want to be involved, why would you rule out being in a relationship with some one that is hiv positive, the same risk, less risk in fact, rather than going around with different people? >> absolutely. when a person discloses their hiv status that means they're thinking about it, that means they're concerned about protecting you and is means they have developed ability and skill to protect their partner, you know. i am in a relationship, relationship where my -- >> means your partner is not hiv positive. >> partner is hiv negative. because we can talk about it, that protects him and that protects me. >> elton, it is also, i mean, just something, so sad about the fact that 30 years into this that the infection rate among men who have sex myth men is on the rise. >> until society stops marginalizing homosexuals, african-americans, intravenous drug users, until we are treated with compassion and respect and as a human being as part of, of we're all god's children, then people will find it hard to have respect for themselves if they don't have respect from the community. it is about time that people started being, using their so-called christian moral values which they actually don't have by being compassionate to everybody with the hiv/aids and particularly to gay people. i am fed up as a gay man being marginalized by religious people, by religious leaders, by being told i'm less than, even though i can contribute as much as anybody else to society. i will fight for the gay community as much as i can on this respect. we have got to have respect, we have got to have a fair and rights and we have got to be treated compassionately by so-called religious leaders who, as far as i'm concerned use religion in a kind of term just for power and for hatred and not for the real reason that jesus christ came on to this earth and said, we must, we are all god's children, we treat each other as equals and we are all human. >> you know, maya angelou said is so insidious about this, this is a disease which, in that tender moment where people are expressing their love for one another or expressing a connection with one another this intrudes, this intervenes, how does one combat that? how do you get more people whether aware or, how do we get these infection rates down? >> it's funny, this week, anderson, that an entire country is talking about empathy and blame and shame. i know it is often dangerous to compare. the president just yesterday talked about, our need to kind of sharpen our imagination to be empathetic. that is so true with hiv/aids. that is the message. we have a lot more in common, a lot more joins us than separates us. >> i appreciate, mondo, being with us. thank you. >> thank you. >> elton, phill stay around. life changing medical advances in the fight against aids/hiv dr. andrew faucci will join us. a warrior in the battle since the earliest days. and a deciding moment, actress susan sarandan and how new aids drugs have helped change her perspective. >> one thing after it had been called aids and identified was to emphasize that these were people living with hiv and that hiv was going to be an ongoing condition just like diabetes or anything else but that you could live with it. as opposed to be called an aids victim. which was huge. because as soon as you found you were diagnosed with hiv or aids, people just gave up. it was such a -- such a death sentence. so that for me was a huge turning point too. when -- when we started to call people, people living with aids. people hiv positive. and not aids victims. tdd# 1-800-345-2550 seriously, letting myself get sold into all these investments tdd# 1-800-345-2550 that i didn't even understand -- i was so naive. tdd# 1-800-345-2550 i mean, i still need help. tdd# 1-800-345-2550 but not from some guy that's just going to sell me stuff. tdd# 1-800-345-2550 i need somebody who works with me, tdd# 1-800-345-2550 speaks a language i understand, tdd# 1-800-345-2550 and basically helps me make better decisions. tdd# 1-800-345-2550 maybe i'm still being naive? 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>> absolutely. actually i was one of those people who is alive today because of the new medications. in 1996, my doctors had given me 24 hours to live. and, i am here today because i have access to care and treatment. and i have a loving supporting family and friends. >> what is it like every day taking medicine, is it onerus, does it have medical impact on you? >> over time, the medicines have got in better. today side effects are relatively mild. i basically take my meds every night before i go to bed. i go on with my life. >> dr. fauci, there have been a lot of developments in the last year. there was a case in germany someone no longer having hiv in their blood after getting some stem cells, is that something people should be kpiltexcited a >> yes and no. people are calling that a cure, it's a very unusual situation that's not practically applicable to the people who have hiv, with someone who had leukemia as a secondary complication and had a stem cell transplant. >> what are the best things going on? >> the area of prevention, one was the first glimmer of hope in a study of africa. >> a gel women would use before having intercourse. >> exactly. that was a really important advance. the other one is a study called preexposure where men who have sex with men who are at high risk were given either a placebo or a drug that actually you would take if you were infected but only taken every day in order to prevent infection. and for the people who actually adhere to the regimen and took it, it was highly effective in preventing them from getting hiv. >> is that something that would actually be useful for somebody to use? if somebody is dating somebody who has hiv and they're concerned or they're practicing unsafe sex, is that something they should be on? >> well, we're not at the point of making a recommendation because we want to make sure the safety and things like that. but what's going to happen for sure is that prevention is not going to be uni dimensional. it's going to have to be a combination of things. use of condom, topical gels in women. >> why is a vaccine so hard? what makes -- >> hiv is a very, very unusual virus. and the body has not given -- doesn't have the capability. even in people infected to fight off the virus. any other microbe, a vaccine or virus we make a vaccine against, we use the model that the body usually ultimately can clear the virus from the body. with hiv, astoundingly of the many, many millions of people who have been infected, there's not a single documented case of someone's immune system ultimately clearing the virus. >> anderson, that's why, even though we're making tremendous progress, we still have to focus on prevention. today we're not -- quite frankly, we're not going to treat ourselves out of this disease. we have to make sure that while the drugs are better, you know, it is still better not to get hiv at all. >> that's an important point. some young people will say, look, on the one hand you see all these ads where people are healthy and lisk with hiv and you want those messages at the same time you don't want people who don't have it to think, it's not so bad. >> that would be a mistake for sure. >> i can tell you firsthand that while i go on with my life every single day and hiv is a part of my life, it's not my entire life, but every single day i live my life knowing that i have this life-threatening disease. and every single day i'm reminded of that, now, because i have to take the medications. and for many, many americans, now, they don't have access to the drugs and the treatment. so while we have all these positive advances, they're not a cure, number one, and the drugs don't work for everybody, and many folks don't have access to them. >> i want to thank you, both, really remarkable work you're doing. up next, final thoughts. >> i got a phone call from elizabeth taylor and she was going to put together a benefit to raise money for aids research and would i be the entertainer. and i told her that i wasn't on the road and i didn't have a band but i'd be happy to just sit at the piano and play and sing. she's been in the forefront of raising money for aids research ever since and i was happy to be able to do it, and i -- she is absolutely our hero. ♪ an accidental touch can turn ordinary into something more. moments can change anytime -- just like that. and when they do men with erectile dysfunction can be more confident in their ability to be ready with cialis for daily use. cialis for daily use is a clinically proven, low-dose tablet you take every day, so you can be ready anytime the moment is right. tell your doctor about your medical condition and all medications, and ask if you're healthy enough for sexual activity. don't take cialis if you take nitrates for chest pain, as this may cause an unsafe drop in blood pressure. 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