for a man who dedicated his life to the service of his community. arun iyengar, bbc news. brendan cox, the husband of the murdered labour mpjo cox, says it brought back terrible memories when he heard of the attack on sir david amess. i thinkjust when you get that... ..when i got that call on friday ijust had a very immediate and sort of very physical reaction to it. i was back in that moment five years ago when i got the call aboutjo and i found it very hard to function. i picked the kids up from school and went away for the weekend just to try and get away from it all. but i also, i guess the other sort of emotion was just the sort of... the terrible sadness for the family, knowing what they're going through, knowing those moments of hope when you know that there's been