the secrets of these institutions are being shattered by the stories of those who were once shamed. more than 10,000 unmarried women were sent to mother and baby homes in northern ireland. they are and their sons and daughters were the victims of a harsh morality. my brother didn't have a voice at the time either, but i certainly will be his voice now. fionnuala was adopted from a home in belfast. she discovered her brother had died as a baby and searched for his burial place. i wouldn't call it a grave. it was more of a pit. there's over 30 babies in the spot where he's buried. they were all just thrown in together, like they didn't matter, in unconsecrated ground in a bog at the bottom of a cemetary. she recently had a headstone put up to mark her siblings 50th birthday. finally has had his name emblazoned in marble. that's what he always