the hospital in time, but she made sure to be at sam's funeral. >> the bagpipes, i still remember to this day. >> reporter: did it make you really proud in that moment? >> yeah. i'm still proud of him. >> reporter: full fire department honors were bestowed upon the admired young lieutenant. >> it was like the whole community came out to pay their respects. it was very humbling, very, very humbling. >> reporter: but along with the tears, there was tension. by now, sam's family and friends had learned danielle's lover had shot sam. >> no one could believe it, that she even had a boyfriend, or that it was her boyfriend that killed him. >> people didn't even want her at the funeral. >> reporter: but the drama didn't end there. sitting not far from danielle was the other woman. was that awkward with danielle being at the funeral, the wife and the mistress? >> yes, it was. but i felt it was more important