still attractive, but 47, and in need of something. and then there he was, janos. she met him at a local club. he was just 32, 25 years younger than staid old archie. >> he was everything archie wasn't and satisfied everything archie couldn't satisfy for her. she told archie she was dating this man. archie was passive about it. she basically told him if he didn't like it, he could leave. >> archie, ever easy-going, accepted it, hoping his marriage would somehow survive. gary was just 18 then, didn't know for sure about the affair, but suspected his mom was seeing someone, especially the day he caught her sneaking off to take a private telephone call. >> i grabbed the phone from her and said "do you have any idea what you're doing to my family?" and i hung the phone up, and that's basically when she left.