dad be if he lost 93-7. ainsley: my dad is a great athlete. always got all these awards. my brother is a good athlete. i was on the team got the 7. dad was you are riding home with me, ainsley, so i can tell you what you should have done better. brian: i'm for a winner there is a way to win and lose. when you win, you shake hands at the end. after a fight, you try to knock the guy's head off but you hug at the end. that's not how you win. steve: the superintendent, rather than, you know, do this public apology. obviously she has a problem with the coach. if you are not supposed to run up the score like that, they don't have a mercy rule. that's a problem with the coach. don't make the kids feel bad about actually winning. ainsley: let me say this though. you learn so much from losing. i remember i did not make -- i got cut from the tennis -- i had the flu and i was trying out for the tennis team in high school. i was the last person to get cut. i was like tasting blood.