kids, i worried about the poor guy they were going out with because women are more aggressive than men. >> one at a time, yeah. >> i understand -- >> however, behavior, guys get amped up, get into bar fights. there is a terrible story about a young kid at spring break and got into an altercation with someone, a brick was thrown at his head and he died on the spot. it took five years to bring that man to justice. everybody is at risk if they don't use their heads. >> in the back. >> i was going to say, know your kid whether girl or boy know your kid. know if they can handle it. my parents trusted me. i know how to take care of myself. i won't end up with a random it y -- idiot. we know people put things in