that has the accident and is in a wheelchair for the rest of his life. the other kid you hear about, everyone is going to the funeral right before graduation at schools. >> and this has been going on for a very long time, shawn. we're talking about this like it's a new problem. this has been going on and we've said is before since the beginning of college, basically. the reason why it feels worse, one, we're getting older. >> speak for yourself. go ahead. >> but also it's because of these. i could record anything at any time. i went to panama city in 1992. i was at sharkey's, i may have gotten overserved one or two nights. >> i've been down there. >> you know all those places. >> i know all those places. julia, what do you think? by the way, julia is a former miss new york? >> current miss new york. >> congratulations to you. >> i always went on spring vacations in college, but you have to think about the long-term effect. with social media it's permanent