decision. >> before accepting the deal the judge demanded to know what really happened. she said, it was just a reckless act, i pushed. she and graham argued about their eight day marriage and graham wasn't happy and when he climbed over a retaining wall and she could have walked away and instead she put one hand on his back and shoulder and pushed him over the edge, a 250 foot high ledge. she had no regard to what would happen, i just pushed. why did she flee? i was squared and didn't know what to do and she left. she told a pack of lies. first said she wasn't at the park when a police photo said she was and said she was with friends when she knew he was dead and did things to throw off police and even texted a friend about her edgy dance moves damage defense attempted to