what does she think of her brother-in-law, congressman paul ryan running for president? and what is the ryan family really like? >> reporter: tell me. you are a closely knit family. >> we are. it is the ryan is a big family. i remember the first time i was introduced, we went out to dinner in janesville in the 90s and it took us a half hour to get to the table because he was introduce me to all the cousins. >> really? there is a lot of ryans. >> there are and they live in the old neighborhoods and they like older houses. they're a wonderful, warm, fun family. >> reporter: you know, i happen to know you are from memphis. i'm a memphis guy, full disclosure. i think tobin made a wise choice. what it was like, integrating into the family and learning their values and the way they do things. >> toby and i spent the most time in wisconsin together, helping paul in his first campaign. we had just had our baby girl